I was looking for ways on how to avoid a divorce when my marriage was on the brink of collapse.
I know the pains of seeing your once happy marriage turn into a crumbling, unhappy mess.
But it's not impossible to fix a marriage, regardless of how bad things are.
I saved my marriage, and so can you.
In this article I will lay out certain ways to rebuild your marriage when your spouse doesn't want you anymore.
The first step on how to avoid a divorce is to set it straight that you are going to change.
If you have to fix your marriage, it's obvious that this "you" is not the way to go.
You have to inspect yourself closely and be willing to make changes in order to attract your spouse again emotionally.
When you sense that your partner doesn't love you anymore (or at least not as much as they once did), you can get angry, because you still feel the same love as in the beginning, and feel their inability to stay in love is their fault.
However, in most cases this is not true.
Preventing a divorce can never be accomplished by blaming your spouse! I cannot stress how incredibly important this is.
Your spouse's feelings for you, and attraction towards you, can and do change according to your behavior.
Never take your spouse for granted.
Love doesn't stay in a person all by itself forever - it needs to be actively maintained.
So, instead of blaming your spouse, focus on their good points.
Be encouraging and supportive.
Fixing your marriage Avoiding a divorce can be done only if your spouse knows (and believes) how much you appreciate this marriage (and your spouse).
So, make an effort about this and repair your image.
A marriage's most important organ is the communication between spouses.
And the lack of communication can quickly undo even the most happy, loving, intimate and desirable of relationships.
Maintaining a relationship is hard.
Everyday life is hard.
A marriage combines a relationship with everyday life - so it is extra hard! So how to avoid a divorce? By interacting and communicating.
Things like bills, household problems and children can cause a lot of friction between you and your spouse even if you truly love each other.
Those frictions cause fights.
And if you have had a lot of fights, you and your spouse both instinctively may have chosen to have stopped communicating because you know that it will end up in another fight.
However, if you want to avoid a divorce, communication is the key.
So, if there are any ongoing fights or issues, you have to deal with them.
Most of the time this means you have to compromise, and you must do that.
When you compromise and the fix the ongoing issues, the lines of communication will open again and this will go a long way in fixing your marriage and avoiding a divorce.
I know the pains of seeing your once happy marriage turn into a crumbling, unhappy mess.
But it's not impossible to fix a marriage, regardless of how bad things are.
I saved my marriage, and so can you.
In this article I will lay out certain ways to rebuild your marriage when your spouse doesn't want you anymore.
The first step on how to avoid a divorce is to set it straight that you are going to change.
If you have to fix your marriage, it's obvious that this "you" is not the way to go.
You have to inspect yourself closely and be willing to make changes in order to attract your spouse again emotionally.
When you sense that your partner doesn't love you anymore (or at least not as much as they once did), you can get angry, because you still feel the same love as in the beginning, and feel their inability to stay in love is their fault.
However, in most cases this is not true.
Preventing a divorce can never be accomplished by blaming your spouse! I cannot stress how incredibly important this is.
Your spouse's feelings for you, and attraction towards you, can and do change according to your behavior.
Never take your spouse for granted.
Love doesn't stay in a person all by itself forever - it needs to be actively maintained.
So, instead of blaming your spouse, focus on their good points.
Be encouraging and supportive.
Fixing your marriage Avoiding a divorce can be done only if your spouse knows (and believes) how much you appreciate this marriage (and your spouse).
So, make an effort about this and repair your image.
A marriage's most important organ is the communication between spouses.
And the lack of communication can quickly undo even the most happy, loving, intimate and desirable of relationships.
Maintaining a relationship is hard.
Everyday life is hard.
A marriage combines a relationship with everyday life - so it is extra hard! So how to avoid a divorce? By interacting and communicating.
Things like bills, household problems and children can cause a lot of friction between you and your spouse even if you truly love each other.
Those frictions cause fights.
And if you have had a lot of fights, you and your spouse both instinctively may have chosen to have stopped communicating because you know that it will end up in another fight.
However, if you want to avoid a divorce, communication is the key.
So, if there are any ongoing fights or issues, you have to deal with them.
Most of the time this means you have to compromise, and you must do that.
When you compromise and the fix the ongoing issues, the lines of communication will open again and this will go a long way in fixing your marriage and avoiding a divorce.
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