"I don't want a divorce, but my wife does.
" Well, I'm sure that this is considered to be the hardest time in your life.
Besides, how can you admit that you still love your wife very much, but she just doesn't want to stay married with you anymore? This marriage means everything to you, but now, the woman you love just wants to give up and walk away from you.
What should you do if you want to save your marriage? If you are telling me "I don't want a divorce, but my wife does", then I'm going to tell you one thing and I'm sure that you are not going to like it at all.
What I'm about to tell you is that you should agree with her about the divorce! I know that you don't want to hear this.
I know that you want to save your marriage.
However, if you want her back, this is what you need to do.
However, it doesn't mean that you have to find a lawyer and prepare divorce papers by yourself.
It does mean that you are going to respect her decision and give her what she wants.
"I'm telling you that I don't want a divorce, but my wife does.
Why are you telling me to respect her decision like this?" Well, you may want to ask me like this.
Ok.
I want you to think about it.
I know that you love your wife, but she just wants to get out of the marriage.
In the situation like this, do you think who has the power in the relationship? The right answer of this question is your wife.
With or without your permission, she will leave you anyway.
You may want to tell me "I don't want a divorce, but my wife does.
But I'm sure that she still has some feelings left for me.
So, I'm going beg her to stay with me!" Well, this is a mistake and it is not going to help you at all.
I know that the situation like this makes you feel desperate.
You feel like you don't have any choice but doing as mentioned.
Wrong! You absolutely do have a choice! Again, think about this.
When you tell your wife that you agree with her about the divorce, then it means that you can reverse the situation.
You can take the power back from her.
Now, you can be in control again.
What should you do next? Well, you really need to be calm.
If you have a chance to talk to her about the divorce, just let her know that you understand why she decides to do this.
Tell her that you are fully aware that your life will never be the same, but you need some time and space to think through things as well.
I'm sure that your wife will be surprised to see you in this condition.
This way, it is possible that she might reconsider about the situation.
If this is the case, then there is a high possibility that you will be able to save your marriage as well.