Is your marriage driving you insane, giving you sleepless nights and do not know what to do? I share your feeling, especially when you did not see it coming.
It can feel like the end of the world when a spouse says "I did not love you any more.
"I am leaving or I need a divorce.
" Friend,you need not feeling scared and confused as this write-up is written to show ways to save your marriage and re-introduce happiness and peace back into your marital experience.
It alsoparades the major causes of divorce and how to use them to your advantage to save your marriage.
Behold at a glance the major causes of divorce: 1]Communication breakdown between couple.
2]Infidelity/Extra marital affairs.
3]Disagreement over finance.
Having noted these top killers of marital bliss, then begin to retrieve your marriage back with the following steps: i]Open up communication Most often than not, it is lack of frequent communication between spouse that build other causes of divorce.
Open communication by bringing up for discussion a topic your spouse enjoying discussing about, for instance your partner may have love for dog as a pet, initiate a discussion about dog and wisely introduce your marital problem along the discussion for resolution.
When your partner either start to react or respond, just be a good listener.
And when is your turn, don't react just respond by saying "I respect intelligent view of your, but this is my perception on this issues, what do you think?" This style of communication help other party in any relationship communication to save face there by avoiding argumentative and conflict atmosphere.
This single act can restore your marriage to its normal shape.
ii]Stop Infidelity/Extra marital Affairs To quickly rescue your marriage from this world acclaimed marital vow breaker, both the unfaithful and betrayed must be committed to work in saving their marriage.
The betrayed spouse should not beg or make any statement that will make such partner ridiculous in the face of the cheating spouse.
Try to unravel the factor that led to infidelity, it may be as a result of both of you are not spending enough time together, incessant argument and conflict among others may be the reason that prompt your partner to seek his or her sexual desire somewhere else.
Because by this time both of you must have developed silence hatred for each other.
The best way out is to begin showing love in words and actions towards your cheating spouse.
iii]Settle Financial Disagreement Do not allow money, debt, gambling, income, budget and investment issues to ruin your marriage.
Both of you should set time aside to talk about your finance, if need be you may choose to see a personal finance consultant.
At this juncture, both of you must reveal any hidden personal financial position and jointly set short and long term financial goals.
Also you must have an emergency account which will be serving any unexpected monetary needs, so that an end can come to any financial disagreement in your marriage.
Having read the three major ways to save your marriage, it should be obvious to you that it iswithin your power to save your marriage, only if you truly desire it.
Once you can be able to tackle your marital problem from solution perspectives of: Opening up communication, stop infidelity, settle financial disagreement, then you should have your marriage secured.
It can feel like the end of the world when a spouse says "I did not love you any more.
"I am leaving or I need a divorce.
" Friend,you need not feeling scared and confused as this write-up is written to show ways to save your marriage and re-introduce happiness and peace back into your marital experience.
It alsoparades the major causes of divorce and how to use them to your advantage to save your marriage.
Behold at a glance the major causes of divorce: 1]Communication breakdown between couple.
2]Infidelity/Extra marital affairs.
3]Disagreement over finance.
Having noted these top killers of marital bliss, then begin to retrieve your marriage back with the following steps: i]Open up communication Most often than not, it is lack of frequent communication between spouse that build other causes of divorce.
Open communication by bringing up for discussion a topic your spouse enjoying discussing about, for instance your partner may have love for dog as a pet, initiate a discussion about dog and wisely introduce your marital problem along the discussion for resolution.
When your partner either start to react or respond, just be a good listener.
And when is your turn, don't react just respond by saying "I respect intelligent view of your, but this is my perception on this issues, what do you think?" This style of communication help other party in any relationship communication to save face there by avoiding argumentative and conflict atmosphere.
This single act can restore your marriage to its normal shape.
ii]Stop Infidelity/Extra marital Affairs To quickly rescue your marriage from this world acclaimed marital vow breaker, both the unfaithful and betrayed must be committed to work in saving their marriage.
The betrayed spouse should not beg or make any statement that will make such partner ridiculous in the face of the cheating spouse.
Try to unravel the factor that led to infidelity, it may be as a result of both of you are not spending enough time together, incessant argument and conflict among others may be the reason that prompt your partner to seek his or her sexual desire somewhere else.
Because by this time both of you must have developed silence hatred for each other.
The best way out is to begin showing love in words and actions towards your cheating spouse.
iii]Settle Financial Disagreement Do not allow money, debt, gambling, income, budget and investment issues to ruin your marriage.
Both of you should set time aside to talk about your finance, if need be you may choose to see a personal finance consultant.
At this juncture, both of you must reveal any hidden personal financial position and jointly set short and long term financial goals.
Also you must have an emergency account which will be serving any unexpected monetary needs, so that an end can come to any financial disagreement in your marriage.
Having read the three major ways to save your marriage, it should be obvious to you that it iswithin your power to save your marriage, only if you truly desire it.
Once you can be able to tackle your marital problem from solution perspectives of: Opening up communication, stop infidelity, settle financial disagreement, then you should have your marriage secured.
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