So many of us have gone on and on about having troubles with distance.
We hear people say that they do not want to be apart from their loved ones because there is that notion that when you are going to be apart, it is eventually going to end up in a fall out.
But when we use the term long distance, how far apart would that be? I have had friends asking me how far is far apart.
Before I answer them, I laugh silently because it is actually a subjective kind of thing.
Someone's idea of being in a long distance relationship could mean being a few blocks away from his or her loved one, while there may be others who would say that being in opposites sides of the earth would be considered as long distance.
I guess most of us are surely going to agree on the latter, but the former is already considered to be distant, too.
If you were to ask me, I would practically answer you with an "It depends on you" and that would sincerely be my best answer.
I mean, seriously, as I told you, it's going to need a subjective answer.
It's the same thing as asking a girl what her ideal man is like.
The keyword is ideal, and almost every positive trait in a guy pops into our heads.
However, not every girl yearns for a Mr.
Perfect.
Girls have that "perfect" guy in their heads, but that's going to be someone who would complement them (probably).
Ideal is somewhat like an idea only, so that would definitely vary from one person to another.
In my point of view, we all have been in a long distance relationship, in one way or another.
You may have had that camping trip that you had to go to back in the summer, and you had no way of seeing your significant other.
You may have had to live off on phone calls at night because you really have that need to talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend at least once a day.
Or, you may have gone abroad for a vacation and all you can do is go on Skype to talk with your other half.
Maybe you even went to two different colleges and you only had the summers to be together.
The list can go on and on, surely you've had those "long distance moments".
Long distance relationships aren't exactly bad for couples.
A thing is only going to be bad if you go and try to bring out the worst in one another, whether on purpose or not.
Distance can actually be overcome.
It's just a matter of willpower.
We hear people say that they do not want to be apart from their loved ones because there is that notion that when you are going to be apart, it is eventually going to end up in a fall out.
But when we use the term long distance, how far apart would that be? I have had friends asking me how far is far apart.
Before I answer them, I laugh silently because it is actually a subjective kind of thing.
Someone's idea of being in a long distance relationship could mean being a few blocks away from his or her loved one, while there may be others who would say that being in opposites sides of the earth would be considered as long distance.
I guess most of us are surely going to agree on the latter, but the former is already considered to be distant, too.
If you were to ask me, I would practically answer you with an "It depends on you" and that would sincerely be my best answer.
I mean, seriously, as I told you, it's going to need a subjective answer.
It's the same thing as asking a girl what her ideal man is like.
The keyword is ideal, and almost every positive trait in a guy pops into our heads.
However, not every girl yearns for a Mr.
Perfect.
Girls have that "perfect" guy in their heads, but that's going to be someone who would complement them (probably).
Ideal is somewhat like an idea only, so that would definitely vary from one person to another.
In my point of view, we all have been in a long distance relationship, in one way or another.
You may have had that camping trip that you had to go to back in the summer, and you had no way of seeing your significant other.
You may have had to live off on phone calls at night because you really have that need to talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend at least once a day.
Or, you may have gone abroad for a vacation and all you can do is go on Skype to talk with your other half.
Maybe you even went to two different colleges and you only had the summers to be together.
The list can go on and on, surely you've had those "long distance moments".
Long distance relationships aren't exactly bad for couples.
A thing is only going to be bad if you go and try to bring out the worst in one another, whether on purpose or not.
Distance can actually be overcome.
It's just a matter of willpower.
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