How can you get your ex girlfriend back? It's not as difficult as it first may seem. The information you're about to learn may upset some women if they read this, but this article is written to help any guys who are struggling to understand the mixed signals they are getting from their ex. By learning what your ex really wants and working with her natural instincts, you can influence the situation in your favor and get her back.
Yes, it can be tough trying to figure out what she wants, but that's because what she says doesn't usually reveal exactly how she feels.
Many women say they want a nice guy that treats them well. But why do they end up with so-called "bad boys" so often? It's because most women are attracted to a guy that appears somewhat detached and unavailable. They can't help it, it's in their nature to want a guy that is strong and independent... not a man that comes across as needy and weak.
If you've been trying to get your ex girlfriend back but seem to be getting nowhere, ask yourself "Have I been acting strong and independent, or needy and desperate?"
Have you been calling her all the time, trying to talk her into taking you back, sending her love letters and flowers, etc? This is totally the wrong way to get her back. She can see that you're throwing yourself at her feet and is naturally turned off by this behavior. The more you pressure her, the more uninterested she becomes.
You have to return to being the strong, independent man that she was attracted to when you first met. Break off all contact with her for a while. Show that you're perfectly happy and doing fine without her. If she calls, be polite and nice but cut the conversation short and explain that you're busy.
Take this time off from the relationship to work on building up your independence and inner strength again. She will see that you're no longer chasing her and it will stimulate her interest. She will start to miss you and will much more interested in getting back together.
Of course there are other dynamics involved. Is she seeing someone else? Are there major issues that need to be resolved between you two, etc? But the approach outlined here should be the foundation of your strategy for winning her back.
Do you see why this works? You went from being a weak and clingy ex boyfriend to a strong, independent man who is doing great without her. The difference in her attraction for you will be like night and day. This is the most powerful way to get your ex girlfriend back in your arms.
Yes, it can be tough trying to figure out what she wants, but that's because what she says doesn't usually reveal exactly how she feels.
Many women say they want a nice guy that treats them well. But why do they end up with so-called "bad boys" so often? It's because most women are attracted to a guy that appears somewhat detached and unavailable. They can't help it, it's in their nature to want a guy that is strong and independent... not a man that comes across as needy and weak.
If you've been trying to get your ex girlfriend back but seem to be getting nowhere, ask yourself "Have I been acting strong and independent, or needy and desperate?"
Have you been calling her all the time, trying to talk her into taking you back, sending her love letters and flowers, etc? This is totally the wrong way to get her back. She can see that you're throwing yourself at her feet and is naturally turned off by this behavior. The more you pressure her, the more uninterested she becomes.
You have to return to being the strong, independent man that she was attracted to when you first met. Break off all contact with her for a while. Show that you're perfectly happy and doing fine without her. If she calls, be polite and nice but cut the conversation short and explain that you're busy.
Take this time off from the relationship to work on building up your independence and inner strength again. She will see that you're no longer chasing her and it will stimulate her interest. She will start to miss you and will much more interested in getting back together.
Of course there are other dynamics involved. Is she seeing someone else? Are there major issues that need to be resolved between you two, etc? But the approach outlined here should be the foundation of your strategy for winning her back.
Do you see why this works? You went from being a weak and clingy ex boyfriend to a strong, independent man who is doing great without her. The difference in her attraction for you will be like night and day. This is the most powerful way to get your ex girlfriend back in your arms.
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