Do you wonder how you can be a better parent? Be aware that most of childrens' learning that occurs during their development is acquired through observation and imitation of what they see in others.
It is common to see even very young children exhibiting the mannerisms of their parents or older siblings.
Children learn from role models and imitate behaviors of those they admire.
This perhaps reaches its peak in the teen years when young people are struggling to find and establish their identity.
The most dominate figures in their life at this time become hero models that they follow and imitate.
"Do children imitate adults?" The answer is yes.
The problem is that there are also many other easily available negative influences for our children to copy in today's society.
Children and adolescents imitate the actions and appearance of those they see in movies, and on television.
Sadly these cater to more undesirable elements than good personal values.
Even though children do look to the outside for role models, parents still have the most opportunities for influencing their children's lives.
You become a better parent as you improve as a role model.
To increase your influence on your child, you must increase the amount of your own exposure to your children while decreasing the amount of time your children are exposed to outside influence.
In other words, as a parent, you must become the dominate role figure in your child's life.
As you spend more time with your children, you will find that your children are more likely to imitate you, so it is paramount that you are a good role model.
If your goal is to be a better parent, the key ingredient is to be a better person.
Be safe to follow.
Be willing to lead.
Take the time to be the biggest part of your child's life.