Some children are perfectionists. This can be hard on parents. Find out what you can do with a perfectionist child that will make things a bit easier.
All children are different from each other. Not only do children look different, they also act different. These differences are caused by each child have very different personalities. One type of personality that is hard for many parents to deal with is when their child is a perfectionist. Find out what you can do when you have a child like this.
First of all, be careful that you aren't too critical with your child.
A perfectionist feel hurts when they hear criticism. It will hurt your child when you are critical about things. It will make him or her feel that they are not good enough. When you make comments, keep this in mind.
Let them have a few things that they almost obsess over. Let their need to be a perfectionist happen in certain areas. If you don't let them do this with anything, this is a huge problem as they won't feel right as they are battling their own personality. Give your child new opportunities to explore other subjects.
Let them explore alone.
The reason for this is that they fear people seeing them mess up. They might tense up not wanting to explore anything as you might see their mistakes. Let them be alone during this else they will be too scared to try anything new to avoid criticism.
Praise your child when they do something right.
Don't focus so much on the negatives, the mistakes, or if things are not done perfectly.
When you do make mistakes, be sure that you react to it in a mature manner. If your child sees you totally explode or lose it, your child will fear ever making a mistake. This can make it harder on your child. If they see you make mistakes and deal with them, it helps.
Let your child know what you expect and when he or she is meeting your expectations. Your child wants to be told when they are doing a good job.
All children are different from each other. Not only do children look different, they also act different. These differences are caused by each child have very different personalities. One type of personality that is hard for many parents to deal with is when their child is a perfectionist. Find out what you can do when you have a child like this.
First of all, be careful that you aren't too critical with your child.
A perfectionist feel hurts when they hear criticism. It will hurt your child when you are critical about things. It will make him or her feel that they are not good enough. When you make comments, keep this in mind.
Let them have a few things that they almost obsess over. Let their need to be a perfectionist happen in certain areas. If you don't let them do this with anything, this is a huge problem as they won't feel right as they are battling their own personality. Give your child new opportunities to explore other subjects.
Let them explore alone.
The reason for this is that they fear people seeing them mess up. They might tense up not wanting to explore anything as you might see their mistakes. Let them be alone during this else they will be too scared to try anything new to avoid criticism.
Praise your child when they do something right.
Don't focus so much on the negatives, the mistakes, or if things are not done perfectly.
When you do make mistakes, be sure that you react to it in a mature manner. If your child sees you totally explode or lose it, your child will fear ever making a mistake. This can make it harder on your child. If they see you make mistakes and deal with them, it helps.
Let your child know what you expect and when he or she is meeting your expectations. Your child wants to be told when they are doing a good job.
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